What are the 3 things you should do with or for your mom while she is still here?

Here are some of the responses to the question I received when I asked

What are the 3 things you should do with or for your mom while she is still here?

Love her. Accept her for who she was and is (let go of any past grievances) and spend time with her.

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Listen, laugh and love! I wish that I knew more about her childhood, I didn’t know that I would want that information as I aged and evolved.

1. Ask all the questions. Ask her about her life, what it was like being a woman in the environments and places she lived, what has brought her alive, where she struggled, what it was like growing up in her family, etc. I wish I had asked my mom more questions that as a woman approaching 40 knew as I do ancestral work. 2. Do things together that make you both come alive, expand and feel connected. If you have a good relationship of course. 3. Finally, sharing with her how much you are grateful she brought you into this world (at least that’s something I’d say).

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1. Help her clear out her junk from clothing to expired food.
2. If you can afford it, occasionally buy items she needs such as appliances
3. Spend time in her company in thoughtful conversations. And laughter

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Honor her (to the best of your ability)

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Maybe tell her you love her, while you still can.
Preferably before shes drfting off to the afterlife while dying in your arms!

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As Buddhists, teach her dhamma and meditation. Encourage her to do merits etc.

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Talk to her, support her financially, and hug her

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Take her on trips (day trips or vacations), slow down and relax with her, lastly, tell her you love her every time you see her.

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Give back what she give to you 🌹❤️

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Living in different states.
1 visit often
2 call everyday
3 listen to all she has to share as bout her daily life.
Respect and Love your moms for they create all of us ✌️💜⚡️

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Aww 🤗 my mum went home at 27 years old! But I would give her a day with her great grandchildren 🙏🏻🩷😍 7 of them 😇🩷🩷🩷

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Take her to breakfast, dinner, cook whatever

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Here or in the spirit world, the bond is strong. We can always communicate with presence and love.

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Spend a lot more time with her while you can…trust me on that..

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Get to know her as a person and not just your mom. Who is she really? What are her passions? What are her favorite memories from every decade? What were her original goals and aspirations? If she could go anywhere or do anything what would it be?