Fostering healthy masculinity – Deeply connected relationship

If a woman develops a high level of discernment and holds herself to certain standards instead of blaming men, she becomes a catalyst for evolution and positive change on all levels, including fostering healthy masculinity.

A wholesome, healthy masculine man is grounded in embodiment and he trusts the spiritual guidance of the Divine Feminine.

A healthy Divine Masculine man does not try to please and entertain everyone else while neglecting his partner because he understands that this will lead to energy leaks and weaken the sacred bond. Neglect is a form of emotional abuse.

A Divine Masculine man is not afraid of being vulnerable since he has the awareness that complete vulnerability, an open heart and emotional honesty are not a weakness but the gateway to safety, deeper trust and an authentic and sustainable connection.

True, indestructible, internal safety is hidden deep within you – within your deepest vulnerability, within your deepest fear and pain when there is nothing left to protect and defend.

Indestructible safety implies complete trust in God / Source /Divine.

Indestructible safety implies absolute trust in unconditional LOVE.

Indestructible safety equals complete surrender.

Indestructible safety implies the willingness to go all the way, to risk everything/to endure the worst so that the illusions of the ego can dissolve.

As I elaborate in the following article we have both energies within us and a woman can protect herself from unnecessary disappointing experiences by not dismissing the red flags.

The Awakened and Integrated Masculine

Masculine or feminine energy does not imply male or female body. Both of the energies can be fully integrated and activated within an individual without a partner.
The purpose of our incarnation is to master True Love and in the majority of the cases this process will happen through the assistance and catalyst of a partner (not necessary romantic) who plays a role of a reflective mirror. We will attract the opposite polarity from which we can best heal, learn and evolve.

The advanced soul lessons will gradually prepare individual to set themselves free from mass consciousness, mainstream interpretations and mass conditioning and to step fully into their Sovereign Self.

The fine line between a liberating Sacred Union Relationship and a binding relationship

One of the biggest barriers that prevent women who would love to experience a fulfilling relationship from aligning with a perfect match partner is a lack of awareness of how wholesome energy feels like within a relationship dynamic or a lack of understanding of how they unconsciously sabotage the partner to show up as a healthy relationship partner due to core wounds, past negative experiences and not feeling worthy of being loved.

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The disempowered masculine man (distorted masculine energy) is a master in seduction. He is service to ego self-orientated and seeks out power. He has mastered the game of attraction and knows exactly what women love to hear but he is not interested or committed to going through the purification and transformation process himself. He will say all the right things, make empty promises but not show up fully and follow through with action on a consistent basis. He will come in strongly and dissappear as fast as he came.

Usually it’s much easier to recognise a disempowered masculine man than the disempowered feminine man (distorted feminine energy).

The wounded feminine man knows how to create emotional intimacy and deep connection. He feels initially safe and innocent. That’s why women find it easy to trust a feminine man and they dismiss all the red flags. He knows how to make you feel seen, met and heard and he will be present and available at the beginning of the connection but as soon as he wins your trust he stops making the effort and will avoid taking responsibility at all costs. He won’t get out of his comfort zone to grow and to evolve and he is terrified of commitment. He will not step up, initiate or lead from the light frequency but from the shadow frequency.

If you are a woman who would love to align with a healthy, empowered relationship partner your highest priority should be to discern if the man who comes into your life is capable to give and receive love and to show up as a healthy relationship partner instead of wondering if you are asking for too much.

Be clear, strong and steady within yourself first and ensure that your connection to Source/God remains your number one priority. Don’t waste your precious time by being pulled into draining, soul-destroying, dead-end relationship dynamics that cost you your peace of mind or make you question your sanity and sanctity. If you are confident within yourself and you have mastered the ability to feel unconditional LOVE towards yourself you will always fall upwards into the arms of your Divine Self no matter what is happening around you.

Nothing could ever come close to the relationship that you have with the androgynous Supreme Self.

Embrace all Parts of You and Love Yourself Unconditionally

If you are a woman who would love to align with a healthy, empowered relationship partner your highest priority should be to discern if the man who comes into your life is capable to capable to showing up as a healthy relationship partner instead of wondering if you are asking for too much.

A woman who does not trust her intuition and is disconnected from her TRUE SELF and doesn’t have a high level of discernment of what is right or wrong will tolerate disrespectful and dishonouring behaviour and will often unconsciously allow it to be pushed into her shadow self by abandoning herself.

From a higher perspective, there is no right or wrong and there is no polarity, and eventually, we will all wake up to the realisation that our perception is often distorted. Truth restores perception. Half truth leads to misunderstandings. It is the ego that blinds us to truth and causes someone to conform to a false perception and reinforce separation patterns.

We are most powerful, supported and protected when we listen to the Truth of our Heart and stay away from situations that look promising or tempting on the surface but prevent us to realise our highest Divine potential.

The level of TRUTH determines the Level of TRUE LOVE. Truth sets us free even though it may often not be easy to accept it. When we stand in our Truth we will not engage in behaviour that constrains our spirit and creates unhealthy intanglements.

From a higher perspective, there are no victims.

We are the cause and the solution. Everything and everyone exists because of us. What we focus upon and give our attention to grows. What we see in the outside world is the reflection of our deepest assumptions and beliefs and we can change our state of being and assumptions.

Rising in consciousness implies rising above the mind chatter and noise of the ego and remembering who you are.

In a higher state of consciousness, the individual begins to feel and see the truth from within and make choices from a place of integrity instead of being misled or deceived by appearances.

Having said this the majority is still operating within the matrix and within this frame, we have agreed to honour various collective and social agreements or traditions.

Depending on the level of disempowerment and being disconnected from her inner guidance system a woman who identifies herself with a wounded self will quietly endure toxic behaviour without saying something or setting appropriate boundaries and without leaving an unhealthy relationship or environment. She will be available to any man who has mastered the basic skills of superficial entertainment or seduction and who knows what a woman wants to hear without honouring her spirit and true essence.

Until a woman learns how to trust herself and her higher SELF fully she will continue to search for TRUE LOVE in all the wrong places and give her power away for breadcrumbs of affection and attention.

If a man has purified himself he will naturally extend Pure Love to a woman.

The presence of a Divine Masculine man is unmistakably felt.

A Divine Man and Divine Woman support each other to be everything they can be and experience together Divine Love without being overpowered by their shadow self.

Hi, I am Erika – Shri Lakshmi.

I am a life-purpose coach and holistic counsellor. It’s not a requirement but people usually come to me in transition. My approach is both practical and mystical/spiritual. My mission is to invite you into higher states of being by cultivating inner awareness, empowerment and love.
I have been unconventionally living life on my own terms while serving the most gorgeous clients all around for around the world for around a decade now. My heart is full and the work I do is highly fulfilling and rewarding.

I can deliberately enter an expanded state of consciousness and have mastered the ability to tap into the SOURCE of LOVE, WISDOM, ABUNDANCE and POWER and I am strongly dedicated to further learning and expansion.

The boldness, determination and courage to walk the path less travelled has opened many doors that exceeded my wildest dreams and I am very grateful for the opportunity to pass this knowledge and experience on and to be of service to the greater WHOLE.

What is stored in our causal auric layer determines our day-to-day experiences. Mindset work might be a great start but is often not enough to change deeply ingrained karmic and ancestral patterns. No matter how motivated and determined we are to shift things. There is more than meets the eye and even more than meets the mind.

My superpower lies in shattering outdated paradigms and tuning in to the unique karmic frequency of my clients to activate their higher calling, including the highest confidence, self-love and empowerment vibration so that they can move forward quickly, uplevel their personal and professional life without unnecessary detours, holding back and feeling stuck. My life is a demonstration of the expression “be in this world but not of it”. I implement spirituality into everyday life in a practical way and help my clients to collapse time so that their life can start to blossom and bloom in a way they might not have imagined.