Why is the chemistry between an empath and a narcissist so strong, intense, but toxic and soul-destroying?

A robber knows which house is left empty for a while, and it becomes his next target. He has trained his energy to feel what emanates from the house. The house energy comes from those that live in it and imprint it. kj

The narcissist can sense the healing powers or the spiritual aura an empath has developed and knows that they need it. They are ultimately energy vampires and energy parasites – fragmented distortions of consciousness looking for a place to feed.

They don’t attack randomly; they attach through resonance.

◾ fear
◾ rage
◾ addictions
◾ unhealed wounds
◾ feeling unloved
◾ feeling victimised
◾ deep rooted subconscious fears
◾ insecurities
◾ Low self esteem
◾ desperate need for attention and validation
◾ misuse of spiritual powers and gifts

These are the doorways

Narcissists cannot cope with a healthy, mature existence and have to poach a lot of qualities from other people.

That’s why the advice is given that it is not a great idea to date if you are grieving or are in a vulnerable place. A narcissist will for sure come along to offer “solace” since they spot it as an “opening” to get in especially if they sense that someone is gullible and naive.

Energy is not something to play with carelessly.

⚽ Practice to recognise character and integrity before chemistry.

⚽ Do not absorb accidentally someone’s dysfunction and destructive habits.

⚽ Observe someone’s emotional and spiritual maturity and their ability to take accountability and responsibility for their actions and decisions.

This planet is governed by resonance and resonance always seeks sameness. There is no separation. Everything is interconnected. That’s why a meeting between a narcissist and empath is not random and it can become a turning and redirection point if you see through the dynamics.

In an emotionally and spiritually healthy relationship, your emotions can be also intense, exciting, exhilarating, passionate and electrifying depending on your nature but without the fear and dread in your stomach or the gut feeling that something isn’t quite right or the constant sensing that your counterpart is doing something behind your back that is harmful and leaves you in utmost shock once you find out.

When it comes to the spiritual dimension it’s
much harder to recognise or proof what is truly happening behind the scenes but keep in mind that people who are not spiritually inclined or don’t have a steady spiritual practice will grab energy from wherever they are or whereever they can. So if they sense that someone has something they try to tap into it because we operate in more than one dimension.

Twin Flame, Soul Mate, Beloved, Divine Counterpart, Sacred Partner

What is often described as a twin flame journey can unfortunately resemble a classic toxic empath and narcissist dynamic, one that is given spiritual language to obscure of what is actually happening. It offers narcissistic supply on a silver platter while quietly and slowly eroding the empath’s healthy discernment ability and intuition. The narcissist will come up with all sorts of ways to keep the empath reactive or emotionally invested to receive their supply.
Spirtual narcissism takes on a whole different level of complexity.

The ancient scriptures repeatedly pointed out that one of the biggest challenges in this Age of Kali is the prevalence of innumerable false incarnations /pseudo incarnations who try hard to influence people to worship them or to follow them rather than connecting directly to what is real and anchors them firmly in ABSOLUTE TRUTH.

Unfortunately the difference between what is genuine, partially genuine or false is not readily apparent for the untrained, innocent public since many are highly adept in saying all the right things without substance and true embodiment of spiritual strength and a clean karmic record.

The fine line between a liberating Sacred Union Relationship and a binding relationship

Especially the early stages of the spiritual narcissist and empath relationship often feel out of this world. The vulnerable person who is either desperate for healing, attention or validation or has something the narcissist wants for himself feels usually seen and understood in a way they have never experienced before. Conversations appear intimate, deep and enchanting. Emotional attunement seems extraordinary.

Deeply traumatised people can easily mistake intense chemistry or a deep connection with a Twin Flame connection when in truth it’s just two emotionally unstable people who have deep wounds confuse intense vulnerability and trauma bonding for safety and True Love.

The human within us wants to hold on to something or someone to feel safe and secure but the actual reality of existence is such that relationships with lovers, friends, country and everyone else are all fleeting and subject to change.

We must be willing to allow our identity to die so that it may be reborn as the Truest Divine Expression.

One purpose of a Narcissist/ Empath dynamic is to bring unconscious parts into conscious awareness. To break the pattern of needing a rescuer or to drop the role to be a rescuer that others can easily prey upon.

If both partners haven’t done the necessary healing work and their energy centres are imbalanced, they wouldn’t even recognise their true Twin Flame if he or she were in their close proximity. They couldn’t receive each other or would destroy the sacred connection.

A Twin Flame is the current of your own Souls Essence. You share the same vibrational resonance with your Twin Flame.

By moving our consciousness fully into the divinity of our nature, we shine light infinitely into the unconscious expressions.

Every aspect you heal reflects back to you.

You are not weak. You are Source connected.

What once fed on you
will no longer even recognize you once you break the pattern for good.

Different frequency.
Different reality. ⚡️🗝️🎯

Resonance determines everything.

An awakened Empath no longer absorbs what isn’t theirs. 🛡️

An awakened Emapth no longer rescues those committed to drowning.

An awakened Emapth no longer confuses chemistry for compatibility.

Compatibility is aligned values.
Compatibility is emotional safety.
Compatibility is trust.
Compatibility is presence.